Say YES to help this Holiday Season

We have officially entered the Holiday Season.

I hope the only thing people are facing is the Tryptophan coma from all of their leftover Turkey.  Thanksgiving is a time to give Thanks for all the blessings in our life - not material things but gratitude's that have blessed our lives. This year has had its highs and lows for many of us.  But one thing stays forever, our SecureACure4MS family.  Family is forever.  Sharon and I are blessed and truly thankful to have you all as part of our family.

Black Friday - for many this is a Tradition.  Retail establishments for one day (it used to be one day) put merchandise at a deep discount.  Many offer great door buster sales to the first  shoppers that come through their doors.  For many stores the offers are sooo great that people camp out in front of the store to ensure they are first in line.  Here in Florida we had some camping out a full week in advance.  Have we gone too far?  I am not going to dis those that choose to shop as I hear from many that with all the discounts they were able to complete most if not all of their holiday shopping.  Prior to my MS diagnosis I could keep up.  But now I have issues starting with the parking lot, and the crowds of people pushing and shoving.  I like to take my time and shop, not have to worry that someone is going to snatch up an item under my nose.  WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS? 

BLACK FRIDAY OR NO BLACK FRIDAY?

I spent my Black Friday decorating the house.  I woke up that morning.  Had my coffee and a bagel.  My grandmother was coming over around noon to help me decorate.  I could not wait that long.  By 830 am  I became SUPER WOMAN

Stockings are hung by Fireplace.  I decorated mantles, the ficus tree, coffee tables, dining room.  Hung wreaths, swapped out towels and rugs.  I was like a Mad Woman on Friday.  I was blessed to have my grandmother come over around 1pm and she was like, "you have Most of it up, there isn't much for me to do". She brought her old village set and set it up on one of the cabinets in the dining room and helped me decorated the tree with ornaments.

My parents and brother will be in for Christmas and I want it to look nice.  The whole family is coming to the house on Christmas day for dinner (except my baby brother and his family).  I want the house to look extra special for my mom since she isn't here to decorate it herself.  (she will be in 2 days before Christmas)

I have to say the house looks great.. Between my grandmother and I we accomplished a lot.

BUT,,,,it seems with all good things there comes a BUT

And I knew it but put my "BUT" aside to ensure I created a festive environment for everyone who comes to the house.  I took full advantage of the "energy" burst I was feeling and boy am I paying for it.  I am super tired and my legs are tight and in pain...

 WHY DO WE OVERDO IT WHEN WE FEEL GOOD?

I KNOW the price I will pay for it... so why do I do it?

This is my favorite time of year.  Being a transplant from Ohio its VERY hard to get in the Christmas spirit in Florida. There is no snow and most days we are outside in shorts and t-shirts. We in Florida, well at least me, dream of a White Christmas - I love going up north for Christmas.  I think EVERYONE in the US should have snow on Christmas Day (then it can go away).  I love the music, in fact that is all I listen to until day after Christmas.  I love the Hallmark Christmas movies, old classics like Frosty the Snowman and Rudolph.  And the classic Christmas Vacation.  I just love Aunt Bethany and watched this movie 3 times already this weekend.

I love the lights, the decor.  The change in spirit, during the holidays warms the heart.  People seem to be more giving, more tolerant, more patient (except when trying to find a parking spot at the Mall)

It's amazing what we as MS'ers do and sacrifice for the love of our family and friends.  But we have to take care of ourselves.  If we don't take care of ourselves we won't be able to take care of our loved ones or may have to miss out on opportunities because of increase fatigue, pain, or more severe, a relapse. 

Ask for help - allow for help - conserve your energy - remember what you use EXTRA one day may take away from what you have the next day. 

As much as you may really love decorating.  Let people help you put up a tree, string lights, put out decorations, bake holiday treats.  All of this takes more energy than I realized. 

I really like the Spoon Theory.  Its symbolic of what we deal with.

My Christmas wish to you all  (I know its early) but my wish is for ALL of us to have a Pain free, Symptom Free, Relapse Free Holiday.

 

Frakenstorm Assistance Needed

The East Coast will never be the same..



The famous Seaside Heights - Coney Island have all been destroyed

Coney Island

Seaside Heights

Looting is in full force- PLEASE STOP!!!!!

In our last post we were helping people prepare for Hurricane Sandy... Being from Florida and seeing the devastation and living through the devastation caused from Hurricanes that were Category 2-3-4 over the past 13 years... Sandy was only a Category 1.  Yes it would bring problems but I never fathomed the mass destruction it would cause.  And if the Hurricane wasn't enough it collided with a jet stream that caused a LOT of snow for some of the Midwest.  This has been named the Super Storm of the Century. Frankenstorm

This storm affected everyone north of Myrtle Beach, SC.  MASS destruction at the Jersey Shore, Staten Island, Long Island, LongBeach, Tottenville Beach, Howard Beach and sooo many other places (comment on other areas i did not list so everyone is aware).

I sit here in Florida, feeling guilty.  Bad Hurricanes are supposed to be a southern thing.  I was HAPPY to hear we would only get the 45mph wind gusts and that our temps would be cooler.  I can handle that.  But in that moment of self relief, I never imagined the destruction it would cause to the rest of the east coast.  WHY didn't it just go out to sea and fizzle out? 

When i heard the news of the path this storm was taking and the fact that there was another storm it was going to collide with I got scared.  My best friend and sister as well as many friends live in Sandy's path.  The Northeast isn't prepared for Hurricanes.  Yes they were hit by Irene, but to happen twice in the same area?  I don't think anyone considered that a near possibility.

Low lying areas were asked to evacuate due to flooding/winds.  But NO ONE imagined this would effect sooo many more. Lists came out of what supplies to have on hand, what to do to prepare if you were going to wait it out "just in case you lost electric".

estimated 7.5-8.5  million lost power

The death toll from Sandy at least 149

The tallest wave was measured at 39.67 feet (examiner)

$50 billion in damage(estimate)

Some statistics from Examiner.com

The top five states which received the highest rainfall were:

1. Andrews AFB, Md.: 15.3" (unconfirmed)
2. Easton, Md.: 12.55"
3. Wildwood Crest, N.J.: 11.67"
4. Virginia Beach, Va.: 9.57"
5. Milford, Del.: 9.55"

The top five states buffeted by the highest wind gusts were:

1. Eatons Neck, N.Y.: 94 mph
2. Montclair, N.J.: 88 mph
3. Westerly, R.I.: 86 mph
4. Madison, Conn.: 85 mph
5. Cuttyhunk, Mass.: 83 mph

The top five states recording the lowest barometric pressures on land were:

1. Atlantic City, N.J.: 948.3 mb (28.00" Hg)
2. Philadelphia, Pa.: 953mb (28.23" Hg)
3. Harrisburg, Pa.: 963mb (28.46" Hg)
4. Scranton, Pa.: 971mb (28.69" Hg)
5. Trenton, N.J.: 958mb (28.31" Hg)

The top five states receiving the most snowfall were:

1. Redhouse, Md.: 26"
2. Bowden, W.Va.: 24"
3. Champion, Pa.: 13"
4. Newfound Gap, N.C.: 22"
5. Wise, Va.: 24"

Many people in Sandy's path have lost EVERYTHING.  Their homes were swept away or severely damaged.  Their vehicles are gone.  All of their possessions are gone or ruined.

  THEY NEED OUR HELP

They have no food, water, clothes, medications, money, gas, phone, electricity.  They are living with friends, family or in shelters.

 THEY NEED OUR HELP

What can you do?

If you have a friend of family member in that area, or live close by you can send basic necessities to them to deliver to the shelters (food, water, clothing, winter clothes, boots,shoes, jackets, toiletries).  If you are distanced, you can donate money (any amount you like) to the Red Cross https://www.redcross.org/donate/index.jsp.  You can text a $10 donation on your cell to 90999 and message REDCROSS.  This will be applied to your cell phone bill or lastly call 1-800-RED-CROSS

WE NEED TO GIVE HOPE TO EVERYONE AFFECTED BY THE STORM.

 

Will there ever be a calm after the storm?  I have to believe YES - I believe if we as a Nation come together we can help our brothers and sisters gain back some normalcy. 

UNITED we must stand - stand with us.

A Special THANKYOU to all our 1st Responders, our Police, Fire Department, Coast Guard, National Guard, Electric Companies, Red Cross, Shelters, Donaters, volunteers, pet relief, and everyone who has helped our storm victims.